Dear Gorgeous Fellow Single Female Writer:

We are too talented, too devoted, too fully present for the online dating scene (see my Medium series on 1001 Tinder Likes).

After trying out Tinder, Bumble, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, eHarmony, Farmers Only, Match, and I-forget-what-else, I’ve refocused my finite attention onto more substantive and rewarding connections — a.k.a. my existing circle of friends, who love me.

Romance will just have to take a back seat for now; or at least until the Universe sees fit to send a true blue hot ticket my way IRL.

May we all find, revel, and grow, in the best relationships possible.

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Ethnoecologist and #VanLife Coach exploring humanity, the natural world, and multispecies relationships. More at

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