Appreciate you doing the research!
Many of your findings repeat the ones I outlined in my piece "1001 Tinder Likes: Now What?" (https://jeaninepfeiffer.medium.com/1001-tinder-likes-now-what-3411651f5e44)
In both subtle and not-at-all-subtle ways, 90% of the guys who reached out to me did things that are basic turn-offs. Perhaps your essay will help turn the tide?